When you found this blog, you probably have something to do with gay escorts. If that is the case, we would like to know your point of view.
Is it just a cheap service or one of the most valuable services somebody can give away.
Did you ever fall in love with a boy or a client?
Let us know what your attitude is … lets start a discussion and help to make this business a better place for all of us.
it’s just like any other paid service…i take pride in the pleasure i give to my clients, and i do my DAMNED BEST every single time to give them the pleasure they expect (often exceeding expectations).
most of my clients end up being good friends (and, of course, regular clients). have i ever fallen in love with one? nope…or maybe not yet.
Honestly, I wish more clients saw me as just fresh meat as it would make the course of things a great deal simpler.
This is a paid service that some clients confuse with love, confusing the fantasy of being with the hot escort in the picture for “their” deluded reality of the boy falling for them…just because he accommodated their desires and did a good service.
I aim to fully please and like to take pride in what I do. Have become friends with a few of the men I’ve met but way too many have racial degradation issues that I can’t stomach (I’m black) and won’t a second time.
Well, I’m French, so excuse my bad English… I’m a client : 40 yo, still in quite a good shape… I just love meeting boys but certainly not ONLY for sexual reasons ! I invite the boy to have dinner with me (in restaurant or rarely at home). I like knowing him a little : what is his life, what he likes, what are his passions (etc.). To me the sex part is the outcome of our relationship : understand : another way (better : a way more) to know him better. Sex is a way to communicate and is there a better communication than coming together ? The money question is simply no question at all !
That’s what I like when I meet a client, I prefear when we spend some time to get acquainted, then sex is even much better !
Every client is different and for me, my attitude towards them. So then i guess if a client is approaching me without saying anything, i wont reply. Then ur fresh meat. Few australian clients are like this.
When he is very talkative and wants to know more about me, i’ll welcome him into a conversation. When i feel more comfortable with a client and he becomes a regular. The sexual experiance is much beda for both parties. So i am also a decent guy.
If his an asshole. Den i terminate him and his booking.
so i guess im both. It depends what THEY are. ok. xo
Everyone is different. Client and Escort. You can have a bad client and you can have a bad escort. And it all depends upon what you expect.
I do agree that some clients probably confuse love with what transpires. Than again, I don’t like escorts who continually try to milk the client for extras.
I love using escorts. Its a simple way to get what you need. Wheter it is companionship or just a quickie.
Hi,
i am french too, but with a very very poor english
I am a Client, 40yo, and i use escort service once a month.
When i wan’t a boyfriend, oh, i don’t need it i have since a long time !
When i wan’t sex, i can found boys for this usage…
When i wan’t a very nice night with a very nice boy, i request an Escort.
The respect is on the base of relation between Escort and Client, each are present to have fun, each part contribute to have fun.
Of course, sexual part of this fun time is important, but for me, when i meet an escort boy for an entire night, sexual time is never more than 3 hours in 12 hours… Nice diners in a fine restaurant, hug on a nice bedroom on a four star hotel, mutually sex pleasure, and nice night… and restart as morning (or during the night !).
This is not love, it’s just fun… Just remember that Escort is a boy who offer services… not fresh meat !
Hija
Well it should be sleazymichael – but escupido dont accom 12 digits!
Anyway very interesting blog comments – its quite interesting how for some clients sex seems to be only a small element of a session – yes of course I do have much conversation – but 99% really want only one thing with me!
Well definately not something cheap – but also not something valuable to give away! – I take great care in trying to deliver a consistently high quality service – and take great pride in the award – Male Escort Of The Year 2007 Erotic Awards that I have – it is a great honour – and always try & give clients an experience they will never forget – for the right reasons!
On the love thing – well how common is that – but I never let it go that far – also reminds me that some escorts will get a gorgeous guy wishing to pay for sex – but wont charge – well I ALWAYS accept – never offer freebies – its his or her choice – OK in my mind I will be thinking why on earth are you paying me for sex!
I’m a young gay escort based in London and I serve New York City as well frequently, known as Josh or Joshboy.
I take pride in providing a quality service to my clients, they pay good money for a good service, escorts come in categories I believe some are professionals, some are players and some don’t know who or what the hell they are! Personality traits too, some are very strong minded, independent thinking and some have victim mentalities dealing with low self-esteem issues. It really is that drastic a difference for the reasons we all do what we do.
I think for a lot of guys including myself, Escorting is a professional service where you need to adapt to fit the client you are with at that moment.
One size does not fit all, one way of approaching it and communicating does not fit all. If you have an open, strong mind, self love and high self confidence, I think that’s what it takes to be a good escort able to give the best to any client.
I have had countless clients that have fallen in love or developed strong feelings, I know I’m a fantasy boy with my long blonde hair, slim 25 inch waist, I’m 19 years old and look a lot younger, I love people and I enjoy what I do, sometimes guys can get that confused, when clients cross that line I won’t see them again for their sake and my own, it always shocks me how people can allow their feelings to get involved when it’s blatantly clear emotions or at least strong love emotions have no place in the sex/escort service industry.
If you don’t expect to run away with your doctor or your hair dresser then don’t expect a fairy tale love affair with the escort you’re hiring.
I have never and never would fall in love with a client, I respect and appreciate every one of them, it’s because of them I live a very good quality of life but I keep love relaionshuips in my personal life not my professional life.
I have been attracted to some clients but I have self restraint, there are the occasional hot, young guys looking to try but don’t have the courage to go out to gay clubs or for whatever reason people would be shocked at some of the clients I see, I know I’m shocked when they are clearly capable of picking guys up any time they want.
Josh – http://www.Josh-Escort.com
There are rule that we all know. But a client must remember a simple rule:
“Never fall in love with an escort”
We sell pleasure, we sell a fantasy. We get paid by men to believe what they want to believe.
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If their fantasy is that a young, attractive man is honestly interested in them, we will provide that fantasy for the agreed priced
A client must also know that once the time is up, the fantasy vanishes unless they buy more time.
Unfortunately, there a clients that cannot differentiate what is the fantasy and truly believe that their dreams has become a reality.
We as escort had to reminded them that our time is worth money. And we run the risk to lost a good client because a broken heart, or gain an enemy who feels betrayed.
There is the other side of the coin, when we get our dream man, paying us to spend time with them. We lost track of our job, and we may go as far as offer them freebies and try to become more in their lives, but the same rules apply. A client is paying for a fantasy,a client is paying for convenience, a client is a client and we never shall cross that line.
It is painful as times, but that how this business works.